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Oliver Burkeman's avatar

I'm constantly amazed at the different intuitions people have about this topic and look forward to future parts of this essay. The value of the Small Potatoes newsletter for me rests wholly on the fact that there is a conscious, thinking, emoting human awareness called Paul Bloom behind what's written here. (I mean… I assume there is?!) Assuming LLMs aren't conscious – and that feels like a separate discussion – there just can't be a real relationship between a human and an LLM! Of course, the fake relationship might be better than nothing in cases of extreme loneliness. Maybe a fake therapist is better than nothing because real therapy is so hard to access, and so forth. But the idea that anyone would *willingly* choose the fake version, for friendship or companionship or the feeling of being understood or heard, blows my mind…

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Joshua Barnett's avatar

The AI responses were far too feminine and problem oriented. It would annoy me greatly. Is there a version that focuses on solutions and progressing forward? As it stands, it seems like it would be worse for people's mental health than even a Freudian therapist would be.

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