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Paddy Meld's avatar

Just sharing this because it's a routine change that surprised me, at 40 years of age, and then surprised two friends of mine who tried this also. We all have little kids and/or babies. About 4 months ago, I gave up trying to go back to sleep after our baby's 3am-ish feed. I figured, "I'm already going to be exhausted, so who cares? I'll just stay up." ...and I felt fine. Good, even. Intrigued, I decided to just do this every morning. I set my alarm for 3:30am. Lo and behold, this seems to be some sort of natural circadian rhythm for me. I now go to sleep around 8:30pm and wake up at 3:30am. I still have to get up 2-3 times each night for the baby. And I feel better, honestly, than if I had continued to pursue my 6-7 hours of sleep but shifted later (my old routine had been like 10pm-5am-ish). Like I said, two friends of mine with kids decided to try this too and same deal, they love it. Anyway, nothing groundbreaking here, just thought I'd share it. Because of waking up much earlier now, I have almost 3 hours of quiet-house/productive time available to me when my brain works at maximum capacity (for me). Plus, I can drink my coffee(s) and listen to the coyotes howl while they do whatever it is they do at that hour of the morning/night. The mind reels with the possibilities. All good. (Shared this post with several co-workers, btw)

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Daniel's avatar

I follow Ernest Hemingway's advice to never stop writing at a natural stopping point. Instead, stop while you are still actively writing and have more to say, and leave the rest for next time. This strategy makes starting up again much easier, and also gets the brain thinking during the interval about what comes next.

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